Mr Anniversary Gift

May 24, 2007

Wedding ceremony is cancelled after bride's brother falls from Greek hotel balcony

What an unbelievable freak accident. Terrible and tragic, but freakish at best.

A British man has died after falling from a hotel balcony on the Greek island where he had gone to attend his sister's wedding.

The tragedy happened on Rhodes 48 hours before Christopher Peck, 25, was due to attend his sister Wendy's marriage along with around 80 friends and relatives, who were combining the wedding with a holiday.

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April 25, 2007

Smallwood hot dog stand owner returns wedding ring found in tip jar

Inside the Citgo, Abigail Eggink waits with the wedding ring.

Yesterday, nine months after she found the plain gold band in her hot dog stand's tip cup, she would finally reunite the ring with its owner.

"Rose Love Bill 6-5-04," the inscription reads.

Outside, at 10 a.m. on the dot, Bill Goetz pulls up in his well-drilling truck. He walks into the convenience store to meet Eggink. She gives him the ring and he slips it on his left ring finger, on a hand gnarled by 40 years of drilling wells. It's as if it were never gone.

"I never thought I'd see it again," he says.

One day last summer, Goetz was working in the hamlet of Smallwood and he went to the stand Eggink ran at the Citgo on Route 17B. He bought fruit and hot dogs. He's not sure if he took the ring off that day to wash his hands, or while he was on the job. But it ended up in that tip cup, along with some change.

Eggink put up a sign at the hot dog stand, and took out an ad in a local shopper. When no responses came in, friends told her the ring's owner probably just threw it away.

But Eggink had faith.

Goetz and his wife, Rose Goetz, had spent weeks searching their house for the ring.


"We looked under the bed and everything," he says. "I figured, it's gone. I lost it."

Rose and Bill Goetz have been together for 20 years. They married in 2004, in a ceremony by a stream in their backyard in Thompsonville, with matching rings.

"It was something we waited so long to do. When he lost the ring, he was so upset," Rose Goetz said.

They had made arrangements to get a new ring, but the lost ring was the one the minister had blessed.

Last week, Eggink put a lost and found ad in the Times Herald-Record, and that led to a news story. The Goetzes' daughter called to tell them someone had found the ring.

"That's the only way I could get it back, because I never look in the lost and found," Bill Goetz jokes as he and Eggink stand in the Citgo. He tells her his parents were married for 71 years.

Eggink tells him she's been with her husband for 30.

They smile; their faith rewarded.


"There's still love and marriage in this world," Eggink says.

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February 24, 2007

Missouri couple plans cemetery wedding

Come September, an Illinois couple expects to pledge their undying love among the dearly departed in this St. Louis suburb's city cemetery, even though those who approved the request are dead set against seeing it become a trend.

I've heard of some pretty off-the-wall weddings before, but this one is right up there at the top.


Kind of makes you wonder how they will celebrate their anniversaries -- in a morgue?

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February 21, 2007

Proper Care and Feeding Your Marriage

The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage

Books can only provide that little nudge in the right direction in checking your attitude toward your marriage but are you doing what it takes to keep that spark alive? Flowers just because, perhaps?

Not many men realize that giving a woman a gift that she can convert into a keepsake and reflect back upon years from now is one of the most precious gifts you could give.

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February 6, 2007

Bam Margera Gets Married


Bam Margera and his childhood sweetheart have officially declared their future wedding anniversaries to be held on February 3rd.

I can't imagine what life would be like with this guy - but obviously it's pretty darn special given that Missy has hung around for so many years.

Congrats to the happy couple!

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January 22, 2007

The Guy's Guide To Anniversary Planning

This is a guide to Preparing for Your Anniversary. With that know there are 3 essentials:

1. A card, flowers (paper roses perhaps) and gift are all strongly recommended.
2. Planning is necessary. It means so much more when a woman knows you took the time.
3. Intimacy is key. Make it personal and so will she!

7 Most Important Questions to Ask Yourself When Preparing for Your Anniversary:

1. What did you do last year?

* This will set the pace for this year. You always have to move forward to something new, different. Don't fall into the trap of always trying to do something "better". This will inevitably lead to eventual disappointment, not to mention possible bankruptsy. Which brings us to...

2. How much can you afford to spend?

* It is especially important to be realistic and have limits. She knows how much money the two of you have, and if you (remember you is plural now) spend what you can't afford, she'll know. And she'll also know that you (plural) will be paying for it later. If that's the case, it's not worth it.

3. What type of woman is your wife (emotional, intellectual, traditional, etc.)?

* This is especially important when it comes to gift giving. The best gift says "I know you, I get you, and I love you". Most women like flowers. Most women think roses are beautiful. But if lilies are her favorite, bring her lilies.

4. What does your wife like to do, what is her "thing"? This has nothing to do with what she does for a living! Photography, cooking, dancing, eating, etc.

* Again, tell her "I know you, I get you, and I love you". What ever it is, if you can, do it with her, or give her the opportunity to do "it". Schedule a salsa class; go to a cooking class together, a photo shoot. Think outside the box. Individualizing your gift takes time yes, but it's worth it.

5. What is the one thing you appreciate most about your wife?

* Tell her. This can be a theme for you. Try to express your appreciation without words, if you can.

6. What one thing can you do well, on your own?

* Do it for her, to her or with her. Make yourself as much a part of a gift as possible.

7. How are you going to top it next year?

* Remember it is about progression. Remember to continue to know her, learn her.

By: Michael Wangner -

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